You’ll know immediately if a girl’s interested. She’ll look straight back, then turn away, and perhaps smile. If she fixes you in a steely glare it’s probably not going to happen. IT’S THE TURNING AWAY THAT TELLS YOU THAT SOMETHING’S CLICKED.There are other signs you should look for too. If she plays with her hair or jewellery , adjusts her clothing or breathes in (to show you how slim she is!) these are all so-called preening signs. They say that she’s interested in your approach, and she’s trying to look her best for you.From a girl’s point of view these signs say ‘I’d like to talk to you !’ SO IF THIS HAPPENS YOU MUST MAKE THE EFFORT TO TALK TO HER .

Even today, not many girls will chat up men or ask them out . For a start, they’re brought up not to , and rejection hurts them much more than it does us. Plus they think if you’re a man worth going out with you’ve got to have the guts to ask them! What girls will do though is give off SIGNALS that they want to be chatted up. Most men don’t know what these are. The secret to being successful is to know what these signals are and whenever you go out look out for these. If you get just ONE signal then swing into action IMMEDIATELY!
Remember, there’s only one part of a man’s body that most girls will melt for - and it’s not what you think - it’s your EYES.So, the first step to scoring is to make GOOD STRONG EYE CONTACT with any girl you fancy. It doesn’t matter what you look like - If you have a good, strong gaze it can TURN HER ON.
(Most men go wrong here - by looking at a girl’s legs or breasts no way can you attract her to you.)
The minute you walk into a room start looking at every girl you fancy. Even if you think she’s far too stunning to ever go out with you. And look at her eyes. Make full eye contact. And give her a smile too. Don’t leer or glare. This is a sure fire way to get the chemistry going. It tells her she’s under scrutiny and in this situation there is no way a girl cannot react one way or the other.
Finally remember - The best looking girls are often short because few men dare to make EYE CONTACT with them. The better looking she is the more likely she is to warm to eye contact .

It’s not what you think. Again, those magazine surveys have shown time and time again that most girls judge a man’s attractiveness by his - EYES!! So, it always pays to make sure your eyes are bright. If you’re tired use eye drops to avoid that red-eye look. If you wear glasses then make sure they suit you, or consider contact lenses. Plus, wearing sunglasses may look cool but it’s a sure and certain way to AVOID getting noticed by girls. As I said before, overall build is much less important to most girls than your personality - Though it’s a lie to say that a decent body won’t attract their glances. In the same survey the things girls found sexiest, after EYES, were a firm BOTTOM, a decent sized CHEST and finally - a suntan. Most girls weren’t turned on by body-builder types and not one said they found the contents of a man’s boxer shorts attracted them.

What You Probably Didn’t Know About Her?

Most girls have got an amazing inferiority complex about THEIR own appearance. They always worry that they are too fat/thin, their hair is a mess, skirt is half an inch too long or short etc. Yes this even applies
to the most stunning ones! So, it always pays to make the best of your appearance and never think she’s too good for you. Because then, in most cases, with all the faults she THINKS she has it will usually be HER that feels she isn’t good enough for YOU!

When it comes to hair - skin head - shoulder length - whatever style you like is fine. But it must be a proper style that is regularly cut or styled and CLEAN .Clean shaven is in . A survey said that most girls think beards are a turn-off. Unshaven stubble might go down well with her the next morning, but the night before it just makes you look dirty .

Girls worry about their skin like crazy and she’ll run a mile before getting close to a spotty face! If you’ve got any spots get rid of them with one of those anti-bacterial face washes.

What Do You Smell Like ?

Girls have got ultra-sensitive noses and so it’s vital to smell right if you want success. Never, go out smelling the slightest bit sweaty because she’ll come nowhere near you. This means a bath or shower before every date - especially if your work makes you smell of anything strong. Use unperfumed soaps and deodorants so you can smell clean without smelling like a flower shop. And girls do go for a good
aftershave - that means the expensive stuff! You’d be amazed how many girls can tell the different brands. But do use small amounts so you don’t cover up your natural smell - men give off a natural musk smell which girls are attracted to .If you smoke this will reduce your chances with non-smoking girls. Plus, I don’t know any girls who like stale-beer-flavoured breath - so a mouthwash or spray is a good idea.Clean hands and properly cut nails are another thing girls notice .

So just what sort of clothes turn girls on? Now. I’d have said a suit, but they’re well down the list. In a survey in one of the girls’ mags EIGHT out of TEN girls said they find JEANS the sexiest thing a man can wear. They can be as old as you want but they should always be clean. Plus, make sure they are as tight as possible round the waist and fit well round the backside - because this is the ONLY part of a man’s body that girls can’t resist!

T-shirts and sweatshirts are usually better than open-necked shirts. If you’ve got a decent body then show her it with a T-shirt that’s a size too small. If you haven’t bulk up with a baggy one. Bomber jackets are better than suit jackets or anoraks - these give you the tight waist-big chest look which most girls admire.
Dirty or worn shoes are a big turn-off apparently, and clean black or brown shoes or boots are much better than trainers which never look clean and can easily smell.

Now , most men judge a girl by how she looks . Is it the same for girls? The simple answer is no . Again , girls are a bit more complex than that! Before being really attracted to you they’ll weigh you up as a complete package , and not just take you on your looks .

But girls are attracted to men who’ve made an effort . After all , she probably spent 3 hours getting ready for her night out! Here are some tricks that will help make sure SHE sees you before YOU see HER!

A girl’s mind works in strange ways-as if you didn’t know-and the things that attract them to men are mostly NOT what you expect . Here’s what they are:–

Honesty
Sense of humour
Eye contact
Smiles
Personality
Confidence
Maturity
Sensitivity
Looks(this one is definitely in the right place in order of importance!)

Ever noticed how a girl goes completely berserk when she finds out you’ve lied . What’s all the fuss about? you think . The big fuss they make you tell something crucial–HONESTY is very very important to girls . Remember this if you are naturally honest and use your honesty to full advantage . Be honest with her even if your natural instinct in a particular situation is not to be.If you are naturally dishonest conceal this at all costs-you’re probably good at that anyway!

A good sense of humour is amazingly attractive to most girls . They want a man who is FUN to be with .If you can make a girl laugh you’re 90% there . If you have a good sense of humour-use it at every appropriate opportunity . If you haven’t-WORK on it - and develop one . This can be done - watch those that have this and use their techniques - try the one that suits your personality best-experiment .

EYE-CONTACT is in my opinion the single most important factor in your success and for this reason I will go into this in more detail later(similarly with SMILES ) . A strong personality draws most girls . They really do go for a man who knows what he wants to do - no matter what anybody else thinks about him .

Girls are also drawn to confident men who are assertive , positive and don’t dither . If you are less than confident - don’t show it . LOOK CONFIDENT . How do you do this? TRY-study body language or just observe & imitate any confident men you see around you . Stand up straight ,never fidget , head up high , slow ,steady movements and above all EYE to EYE contact at all times . You know the things I mean -observe & learn & apply .

Maturity is a big turn on with most girls . This is one reason that quite a lot find older men attractive . So it usually pays to act pretty sensibly when you’re with girls ( not to the extent that you lose your sense of humour and fun of course ). Drinking beer until it comes out of your ears , falling over senseless and going on the rampage might be a good laugh when you’re with the lads but it won’t impress her . She might laugh but inside she’ll be eaten up with embarrassment .

A lot of men think that girls are turned on by very macho men - but most girls think completely the OPPOSITE . Girls like their men to be sensitive . Don’t take this too far , girls want their men to act like men but try and mix being a man with being caring and sensitive . A heady cocktail that girls find irresistible ! If you find something ‘nice’ or ‘pretty’ or something upsets you - tell her . You’ll be surprised how much she warms to you . Especially if the something nice or pretty is about her!!

Whilst girls obviously go for good looks and a decent body it comes surprisingly LOW on THEIR list of priorities . By itself it doesn’t turn them on like it does men . Ask a girl if she is turned on by these things , she will probably say yes but deep down a girl knows she can’t find any man a turn-on unless he CARES for her too.For this reason , if you are worried about your looks and body(and who isn’t?)-put your worry out of your mind.

The first thing to remember is that girls just aren’t the same as men! OK , so you knew that . But what you probably don’t know and what you’ve probably never even thought about is just HOW DIFFERENT THEY ARE .

For most men a dream date is a girl with stunning looks , a fantastic figure and who’ll be eager to give him as much mind - If she’s got a nice personality that’s a bonus , but it’s not the main thing .

Am I right? For most girls , this is COMPLETELY & UTTERLY DIFFERENT . Her dream date is a man who will compliment her , love her and make her feel secure . Sounds old-fashioned?-but it’s TRUE . Of course girls do think about looks and sex , but they are MUCH MUCH further down their list of priorities than they are for men . She’d much rather have a man who is nice to be with and loving than one who is aggressive and cold , no matter how good looking he is .

Now be warned . This is where most men slip up . SO NEVER EVER FORGET THIS–On first approach a straightforward suggestion of sex leaves the vast majority of girls stone cold . This also applies to things non-verbal . First impressions are vital and if the first thing you do is mention sex , touch her then she will conclude that you are not for her.  On the contrary if her first impression of you is someone that is likely to offer her love and affection and care she’ll be very interested indeed.So the most important secret of success with girls is to GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS not what you think she wants!!

The launch of DELL Crystal LCD targets the people with very deep pockets.Crystal’s 22-inch panel includes ultraclear tempered glass with integrated speakers and webcam.Placed on Chrome-Plated Zinc alloy which can be used for floating screen effect.It has capacitive touch controls.

The crystal has a native resolution of 1680 by 1050 pixels,but for price it should be 1920 by 1200 pixels.At monitor’s back DELL uses a single cable that splits into connection options such as HDMI,SUBWOOFER-out,USB and power.Display output does not offer VGA port.The package includes HDMI-to-DVI adapter which is used to establish DVI connectivity.

This is a solid monitor with good integrated speakers and breathtaking design.But it costs you around $1199.

Mainframe Education initiative

September 28th, 2008

INDIA has late emerged as an important hub for mainframe projects,which has led to an increase in demand for qualified professionals in this field.To meet with this,a new education programme has been initiated by PROED Training.PROED will launch Australia-based datatrain’s eLearning curriculum for mainframe education,for first time in INDIA.The programme aims to complement blended learning strategies in mainframe education and ensure that the learning imparted is highly relevant to IT companies.

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